14 Obedience Training Lessons For Dogs of Every Size, Breed, and Age

How do you know if you have a slow dog? He brings you yesterday’s paper.

Despite this older riddle, most dogs are not “slow.” They can learn to follow directions, perform tricks, and work at jobs, just like people. Unfortunately, they do not learn these things alone. They need your help, guidance, and patience to be successful.

Teaching your dog basic obedience commands is one of the first things you should do when you own a dog, no matter what breed it is. Make sure you are ready to be a responsible owner.

Why Train My Dog?

Training your dog helps you to bond (become closer) with your dog. The more you train him, the more he will understand you. And the more you work and play with your dog, the more you will understand him. Always remember to make training a fun and interesting game for your dog.

In the past, dogs were bred to perform specific jobs like herd sheep, find rodents, hunt birds and mammals, and work with firemen. But now, many dogs are left with nothing to do all day long. They can become bored and lonely. When that happens, they might chew, dig, or bark too much. Or they might sleep all day, which isn’t healthy.

Training your dog gives him something to do and helps build his confidence. Good citizens get to do lots of fun things. What’s the best reason to train my dog? A ‘good citizen’ is a person or a dog who follows the rules and is a good member of the community. Good citizens get to go more places and do more things. People will like your dog more if he is well-behaved. Dogs can become good citizens through obedience training.

Obedience training is also fun. Yes, fun! You get to take your dog out in public and meet other dogs and new friends. You both get some exercise and you can learn tricks that are fun to show to your friends. When friends come over, they will be happy to hang out with your dog.

Who Trains Your Dog?

Many people can train your dog. A professional dog trainer can come to your house or take your dog for a couple of weeks.

Your parents can train your dog. They can take your dog to a class at a park, a pet store, or a humane society every week and learn good methods of dog training. Or they can train your dog at home using books and websites.

Can you train your dog? Absolutely! There are many things you can teach your dog. You can learn to teach your dog manners, good behavior, and fun tricks.

Where should I train my dog?

The best place to train your dog is where he can pay attention to you without distractions. If he’s watching other dogs, he won’t be able to pay attention to you. If there are other people calling his name, he will have a hard time hearing you.

How often should I train my dog?

Your first goal is to keep your dog happy while he’s learning. Teach him for shorts periods of time. For some, that’s thirty minutes and others, only ten minutes. Stop the training while he is still interested. You can teach his lesson again, later in the day.

Your second goal is to work with your dog while you’re feeling good. If you start to feel frustrated or tired, stop and play with your dog. Wolves and dogs are alike.

Like humans, dogs have families. For dogs, these families are called packs. In a pack there is always one leader and several followers. The leader is the dog who makes the rules and watches out for others in the pack. When a dog lives in your house, your family becomes his family, or ‘pack’.

It is important that you let your dog know who the leader is. If he doesn’t know, he will try to become the leader. It’s an instinct (he’s born with it) to try to be a leader. When this happens, a dog may be pushy and not follow the rules. By teaching the dog obedience and giving him things to do, he will realize that a human is the leader and he will follow, instead of lead. Dogs should behave around other dogs. It’s time to start your obedience classes!

Patience & Why it’s Important

If you are patient, your dog will be happy to learn all kinds of things. Patient means that you are able to wait calmly for things to happen. Patient people can wait for their dog to learn without becoming mad or nervous. Patient people don’t lose their temper when things don’t happen the way they want them to. Be patient and your dog will learn.

Dog training classes are not really for your dog.

When you take your dog to a training class, the lessons are for you. This is a time for you to learn:

1. What commands to use
2. How to teach these commands to your dog
3. How to praise your dog
4. Effective ways to reward the behavior you want, like proper potty training

It is your opportunity to see an expert in action and ask any questions you might have. After learning how to teach your dog, then you can go home and practice, practice, practice! It’s also improtant to be patient, especially during the early phases when your puppy is going to be teething and will need redirection to the appropriate teething dog toys to help them stay busy!

Training Lessons

The following lessons in each link below will provide you with a brief overview of each basic command, as well as a video of the dog being taught the command. Click each link to find the right way to teach your dog each command!


Here’s how to teach your dog to sit:

Be ready with a small piece of your dog’s favorite treat

Stand facing your dog or puppy

Holding the treat in front of your dog’s nose, move the treat up toward the top of his head.

If your dog lifts his front feet off the ground, you are holding the treat too high

When your dog lifts his head and shoulders to get the treat, his bottom should go down

As soon as your dog is in the sit position, praise him or her by saying “Sit.”

Then say “Good boy/girl, sit.” Give him or her a treat if you like.

If you need to, gently touch your dog’s back to give him a signal that you want him to sit.

Do not push hard on his back or rear end.


When Bonnie was only three months old, I taught her to come when I called and when I blew a whistle. She did a good job and was very reliable. But then she turned four months old and she forgot how. She didn’t respond when I’d call her name. Actually, she didn’t forget. Puppies often go through stages where they are more independent and don’t think they need to pay attention. It’s normal. I just kept on training and used lots of patience to get through this period.

Now Bonnie is six months old and for about four weeks we have been working on her response to my calling her. She is doing much better. She does remember what she’s supposed to do when I call her.

All of this time I’ve been working with her in my yard and on walks in the neighborhood and she’s progressing. The next step is to go where there are some distractions and see if she will come when I call her name.

I bought a very long leash. It’s thirty feet long! With this leash, I can go to a park and let Bonnie wander away from me and still be safe. I can let her get distracted by people, bikes, and skateboards and then call her. It’s a great way to practice and reinforce this command that can be very difficult.

One word of caution. Don’t use a long leash if there are dogs nearby. If one runs to your dog, you won’t have quick control with such a long leash. Also, don’t use a retractable leash for this exercise. A regular thirty-foot leash works best for your dog to wander and get distracted a long way from you.

3.Leave It

Here’s a great way to teach your dog the “leave it” command. This will help educate your dog on what’s acceptable for them to take and what you want them to leave alone. Follow these steps to properly train your dog.

First find 2 treats that your dog likes.

Then take the treats and your dog over to a place on the floor or to a low table like a coffee table.

Put one treat in your pocket and set the other on the floor or table right in front of your dog’s nose.

As you set this treat down, you’ll notice that your dog is staring at it and drooling.

As you set it down, say, “Leeeave It” very slowly and firmly, but in a normal voice.

Keep your hand right there. If your dog leans in to get it, just cover it with your hand and repeat, “Leave It”

Wait just a few seconds, then grab the treat and praise your dog.

Then, give the second treat you have brought as a reward. Don’t give him the food he/she is learning with.

Repeat this game several times a day, just for a few minutes.

As your dog starts to understand what “Leave It” means, you may begin to move your hand away just a little bit farther each time.

Eventually, you should be able to leave a treat on the table, sit in your chair, and be able to trust that your dog will leave it alone.


A dog can learn to stay in any position. In order to do that, he must be taught to stay in each of those positions. You can teach your dog to sit and stay, lie down and stay, and stand and stay.

What does stay mean? Stay means DO NOT MOVE. Your dog will not move when he understands what stay means.

So first, you will teach your dog to ‘stay’ from the sitting position. Your dog will sit and not move until you tell him it’s OK to move. Here’s the best way to teach it.

Have your dog sit; make sure the dog is sitting comfortably.

Stand or sit in front and put the palm of your hand in front of his/her face and say “Stay”.

Step away using your right foot. You should always leave your dog using your right foot.

Take only one or two steps, turn and stand right in front of your dog.

You may repeat the word ‘stay’ a couple of times. Wait only a few seconds and then return to your dog’s side.

When you finish, say “okay!”. Get your dog to move and praise the dog.

Do this several times over the next few days. When your dog seems steady, you can increase the time that you stand in front of him.

Then you can increase the distance, but only a little at a time.

If you want to give your dog a treat, give him a small piece while he’s in the ‘stay’ position.

Don’t feed him/her until after they move, or they may think that he got the treat for moving. You can also praise by saying, “good stay” while he/she is staying.

You may practice your ‘stays’ from a down or standing position by following the same steps.

After your dog understands how to sit and stay, you can try lie down.This might be days or weeks later. Follow the same instructions as above, but first have your dog lie down. Your dog probably won’t understand right away. Go slowly, like he/she has never heard the word ‘stay’ before.

What is Proofing?

Proofing is practicing ‘stay’ under many different circumstances. Here are some things you can try:

Have your dog ‘stay’ in the house and outside. Have him ‘stay’ when you have friends over. Roll a ball past him while he is on a ‘stay’. Have someone call him while he is on a ‘stay’. Try practicing next to another dog. You can also have your pup stay while crate training, but just make sure you have a crate that’s big enough for your pup.

Never overdo it. Be kind to your dog. Proofing is not to tease him, but to show him exactly what ‘stay’ means. Your dog will become more confident as he begins to understand the meaning of ‘stay’.


The word ‘Off ‘ is used when you want to get your dog’s paws off of something, like furniture, the fence, or someone’s body.

It’s best to set up a training session to teach the “off” command.

Get your dog or puppy to put his front feet up on a box or your lap.

You can also use a chair or anything that is comfortable for you and your dog.

Get your dog or puppy to put his front feet up on the box or your lap.

Praise and pet the dog.

Shortly after, say “Off” in a firm, but gentle voice, followed by praise or a treat.

If your dog is on your lap and doesn’t get off, you can stand up. Be sure to say “Off” as you stand up.

Tip: ‘Off’ does not mean the same as ‘Down’!

Use off for getting your dog off you after jumping up, jumping on furniture or jumping on the fence. Use down to have your pup lie down on the floor, or lie down in their dog bed.

5.Lie Down

Here’s how you can teach your dog to lie down.

Start off by having your dog sit while you have a treat in your hand.

Let your dog sniff a treat you are holding, but don’t let them have it.

Lower the treat to the floor, and as you are doing that, your dog should follow it down.

Be sure to say “lie down” as your dog begins to lower themselves.

Your dog should lower himself all the way to the floor. You should be now holding the treat between his front paws.

Only give him the treat once he is on the floor.

Repeat the words “Lie Down” many times: Say, “Good boy/girl, lie down. Lie down you good boy/girl.”

Practice this several times during the day and over several days.

Now that Bonnie is five and a half months old, I’m beginning to expect more from her. She is taller and weighs more and is starting to look like a real dog. But many times during the day I’m reminded of how young she still is. Bonnie is very active and gets bored easily. I have to come up with things for her to do all day long, especially because we don’t have another dog. Luckily, there are times when she can entertain herself by chewing on a bone or playing with a toy.

When Bonnie and I were taking the puppy class, I began short training sessions with Bonnie at home. I wanted to be sure she learned things in time for the next class. Because of this, Bonnie is used to a little training each day. It’s kind of like homework, only Bonnie thinks we’re playing games. Learning is always more fun when you’re playing a game, right?

Last week we worked on the command, ‘down’. I want Bonnie to learn this because if she’s wild or we have company, I can have her lie down and control her behavior. Another reason is that we can take her places and she will be well-behaved around others.

Some dogs have a hard time learning down, but if you keep it fun and only do a little bit each day, your dog will learn it. Here’s Bonnie when we first started learning. She was very silly

6.Go Hurry Up

Go Hurry Up is a phrase that you can use to get your dog or puppy to go to the bathroom. It’s easy to teach, but some dogs take longer than others to understand.

As with all training, try to be patient, positive, and consistent. Begin by taking your dog to a place that you would like him/her to go. This should be a positive experience for both of you and your dog should be rewarded with praise, treats, or both.

Here’s how to teach it:

Starting when you first get your pup or dog, every time your dog eliminates outside where you want him/her to, say “Go Hurry Up”.

If you say it every time he/she goes, they will eventually associate going to the bathroom with the words, “Go Hurry Up”.

Be sure to say those words every time and everyday that he goes to the bathroom.

Later you can say, “Go Hurry Up”and he/she will!

Be sure that you always praise your dog every time he/she goes, if it is at the right time and in the right place.

7.Move Please

Teaching”Move, Please!” The words, “Move, please” let your dog know that he needs to change position and move out of the way.

“Move, please” is a command that helps your dog understand what you want. It teaches your dog that you are the leader and in charge. You can use the word, “Move” instead, if you prefer. You can teach your dog to move any time of the day. You do not need to plan a special time for this lesson.

When your dog is sitting or standing facing you, just walk into him while you are saying, “Move, please”.

He/she will think you are going to step on him (but don’t!) and will move out of the way.

Do this a few times each day and it won’t take the dog long to learn it.

Practice “Move, please” in different places — outside, in doorways, at friends’ houses.

Show your friends and family how to do it so you dog moves for everyone.

If your dog is bigger than you, “Move, please” is a great thing for him to know. You won’t have to push or pull, or even put on the leash. Just say, “Move, please”!


The wait is a lot like stay, only your dog doesn’t have to be still. Wait means: don’t go past a certain point. You might use wait if you want your dog to stay in the kitchen
while you go to the living room. With the ‘wait’ command, your dog can move anywhere in the kitchen, but cannot leave.

Think carefully about whether you want your dog to stay (don’t move a muscle!) or wait (you can move, but don’t follow me!) Some situations require that you tell him to stay and some require that he wait.

Here’s how to teach the ‘wait’:

Let’s say you want your dog to stay in the kitchen, and you don’t want him to go into the living room, which is right next to it.

Stand here at the doorway to the kitchen. Hold the palm of your hand toward your dog and say “wait”.

Say it slowly and raise your voice at the end. Say “waaaaiiiiit”.

Then stand in the doorway facing your dog.

Don’t let him out.

He can go anywhere in the kitchen, but not out the door.

Repeat “wait”.

Remember the difference between wait and stay. Which one do you want to use? A little bit at a time, start to back up farther away from the door. If your dog tries to come through the doorway, walk back to the door, with him in the kitchen and repeat “wait”.

Stay close to the door until you feel he understands; then back up a couple of steps. If he does that well, then you can back up more. Remember, these steps should be done over several days. Don’t expect your dog to learn it the first day.

9.Watch Me

Teaching your dog to pay attention to you is very important. If you can get your dog to ignore things around him and focus on you, it will be much easier to teach basic commands. Teach ‘Watch me’ just like you would any other command or trick. If you spend time teaching your dog to pay attention now, he/she will be a much better student for all training later.

Never stare into a dog’s eyes. Staring is when you look directly into a dog’s eyes for too long. Dogs interpret staring as a challenge and some dogs can get aggressive.

Looking at your dog’s eyes for a moment or two is fine if your dog is a trustworthy pet. When your dog looks at you, it helps you to feel closer to him/her. This will help your relationship and can encourage faster learning.

Here’s how to teach the “watch me” command:

Put some of your dog’s favorite treats in your pocket or closed hand.

Stand or sit facing your dog.

As soon as he/she looks right at your face, quickly say “Watch me!”, provide the treat, and then say, “Good boy/girl!”

If your dog just won’t look up at you, you can use your treat by holding it up by your eye.

It’s important that you don’t show your dog the treat first.

If you do, he/she will want to look at the treat instead of you.

At first, you might hold the treat up to your eye to get him to look up at you, but once he understands, only give him the treat after he/she looks at you.

Practice “Watch me” many times during the day. It may take a while before your dog understands.

When you think he/she knows the words “Watch me”, try it again. If he/she doesn’t look at you, don’t say anything. Just try it again another time.

Praise your dog whenever he/she does what they are supposed to do.

Once your dog has truly learned “Watch me”, you can take them anywhere and he/she will turn all of his attention to you! Never punish your dog or yell if your dog is not learning as fast as you think they should. Your puppy may be tired and need a break and may not understand what you want.

Take a break and think about what you can do the next time to have more success. Remember that your dog is not being stubborn, he/she is just learning.


Uhtred is a well behaved mastiff. Because he is a more stubborn breed, he took several times to attempt training him with the “heel” command. He now understands what it means, even if he sometimes tries to pull or gets more interested in other dogs or humans.

First, you need a 4 foot leash and a collar that won’t slip off.

Start by having your dog sit on your left side facing front just like you.

As you say “Heel”, take a step starting with your left foot.

Using your left foot all of the time will signal your dog that you are about to walk.

Walk at your normal walking pace and talk to your dog while you walk.

Praise the dog — You want them to be happy walking with you. Keep talking and make it fun.

Go a few feet, then stop. Give more praise, or you can have her sit and then praise…as long as the dog stays with you.

Practice for 5–10 minutes several times a day. Keep it fun!

Can you train your dog? Absolutely! There are many things you can teach your dog. You can learn to teach your dog manners, good behavior, and fun tricks.

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